35-Year-Old Shares Family’s Cancer and Stroke Crises, Reveals Own Heart Condition, and Warns Against Neglecting Health
English summary
The author’s mother was diagnosed with advanced diffuse large B-cell lymphoma (stage IV, KI67 95%+) and requires POLA-R-CHP chemo (self-funded 33,000 CNY per cycle, 6 cycles). His brother suffered an acute cerebral infarction during the same period. The author then discovered his own coronary artery mixed plaque with moderate stenosis and ventricular tachycardia, worsened by anxiety and previous inconsistent treatment for high triglycerides. He highlights the consequences of self-adjusting medication, ignoring symptoms, and skipping regular checkups, and advises early marriage, having children, and prioritizing health over careerism.
Chinese summary
发帖人的母亲确诊晚期弥漫大B细胞淋巴瘤，需自费使用POLA-R-CHP方案（每周期3.3万元，共6周期）；其兄同期突发脑梗。发帖人因焦虑和长期血脂异常断断续续服药，检查发现冠脉混合斑块伴中度狭窄及室性心动过速。他反思私自断药、未重视体检和症状的教训，并建议早婚育、不过度透支身体，每年带父母做全面体检。
Key points
Mother diagnosed with stage IV high-grade B-cell lymphoma (KI67 95%+, 11Q aberration) and treated with expensive POLA-R-CHP, with 50% recurrence risk and a potential 1.2 million CNY CAR-T option deemed unaffordable.
母亲确诊晚期高级别B细胞淋巴瘤，需使用昂贵的POLA-R-CHP方案，复发率50%，后续可能面临120万元CAR-T治疗，家庭经济压力巨大。
Brother hospitalized with acute cerebral infarction due to high blood sugar, smoking, overwork, and stress; author’s own tests revealed coronary plaque with moderate stenosis and ventricular tachycardia.
兄长因高血糖、吸烟、熬夜及操心母亲病情突发脑梗住院；作者本人检查发现冠脉混合斑块、中度狭窄及室性心动过速。
Author blames intermittent self-discontinuation of lipid-lowering medication and ignoring earlier CT signs of coronary calcification, leading to rapid progression.
作者因高血脂自行断药、忽视半年前冠脉钙化CT提示，导致血管病变迅速加重，深感后悔。
Advice: do not self-medicate, maintain regular checkups (especially for parents), address any symptom immediately, marry and have children early, and value health over career and money.
建议：勿私自断药；每年带父母做全面体检；身体异样立即就医；早婚早育分担压力；健康远比金钱和事业重要。